The Gift of Fear

作者：GavindeBecker

出版社：Dell

出版年：1998-05

页数：432

定价：USD7.99

装帧：MassMarketPaperback

ISBN：9780440226192

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True fear is a gift.

Unwarranted fear is a curse.

Learn how to tell the difference.

A date won't take "no" for an answer. The new nanny gives a mother an uneasy feeling. A stranger in a deserted parking lot offers unsolicited help. The threat of violence surrounds us every day. But we can protect ourselves, by learning to trust—and act on—our gut instincts.

In this empowering book, Gavin de Becker, the man Oprah Winfrey calls the nation's leading expert on violent behavior, shows you how to spot even subtle signs of danger—before it's too late. Shattering the myth that most violent acts are unpredictable, de Becker, whose clients include top Hollywood stars and government agencies, offers specific ways to protect yourself and those you love, including…how to act when approached by a stranger…when you should fear someone close to you…what to do if you are being stalked…how to uncover the source of anonymous threats or phone calls…the biggest mistake you can make with a threatening person…and more. Learn to spot the danger signals others miss. It might just save your life.

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加文·德·贝克尔，生长在一个充满暴力的家庭，特殊的经历却练就了他洞察危险的能力。凭借首创的危险预测法，贝克尔三度被美国司法部任命为总统顾问委员会委员，曾担任布什、克林顿和里根总统的安全顾问，还为麦当娜、汤姆·汉克斯等公众人物提供暴力预测服务。贝克尔不仅是危险预测专家，还是杰出的人性大师，他以自己多年研究暴力的经验，剖析出识别危险信号的方法，并致力于将全部心得普及给普通民众，包括如何远离家暴、骚扰、凶杀等侵害。在贝克尔的指导下，很多人得以辨识出身边的危险，并由此获得安全。

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How long since i've had such a good read

罗嗦又混乱，一会说相信直觉，一会又在不断分析，虽然大致能理解他的意思，而且有一些不错的insights，但体育老师写书还是太难为了（逃）。

有点啰嗦……

如果robert caildini的influence主要讲的是正面负面的应用，这本书就是influence的负面应用。

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